Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...I'm with most posters - be HONEST with them and let them know you are dating others.There is nothing wrong with that in the early stages of getting to know one another.Otherwise you're going to risk seeming like a sleaze-bag, which... The longer you let it go, the easier it becomes for you to justify some version of cheating later on down the line--and I don't say that because you're of your situation, or because you're a guy--it's just human nature.As long as they both are aware that you are ''dating'' and ''looking'' to see what is out there, then you shouldn't have a problem.no3) Should I go out with each one a few more times before deciding? if you find one that does more than the other, then try to put off dating the other girl until later. If either of these women had demanded that you be exclusive, you would probably think she was out of bounds. It is acceptable to date as many women as you like until you find one with whom you want a lasting, intimate relationship.
Honesty may not buy you the flavour of the month but at least everyone knows where they stand and they will be relieved at your honesty at some level - because it takes guts and courage at times to be honest.
To me,if there is no physical intimacy with either woman, at this stage youre hanging out with both as friends.
I dont think there is any need to say anything to one about the other, unless you decide you want to be exclusive with one of them and things turn a bit more romantic O:). I bet they read the forums, you are gonna be in big trouble and have none Also, ya better hope they don't look at your profile too soon, your last few posts are on there............lmaooooooooooothis is one i'm really puzzling about, that people write about the people they're dating on POF - on the forums. i'd think they've have an ooops section of the site for people who lost their potential-SOs by talking about them...appears our lucky OP posted on a different site, but eh, i've been wondering this...
As long as you're not planning on sleeping with both which would be wrong and unfair to them, you're doing ok.
The only way to date two women and retain the moral high ground is to procure another penis--whether there's a man attached to it or not is entirely up to you. Unfortunately, you don't decide when you start being the bad guy--the women do.