Patridge and Bohan began dating in 2008, spending several years together on and off before dramatically splitting on her VH1 reality show, , in 2011. You get to a point where you’re just ready to move on and you can’t take it anymore.” “You’ve just got to move on, and sometimes you’ve got to think about yourself instead of trying to people please,” she added.
At the premiere party for the reality series, Patridge told PEOPLE of the breakup, “It’s something that was an ongoing thing that I talk about in the show. But the next month, Patridge ended her romance with polo player Nic Roldan to rekindle their relationship, a source told PEOPLE in May 2011.
We were mostly friends for the most part." "Before that even happened, Kristin and her boyfriend and me and Justin would go on double dates and we'd go to parties, so it was really weird for me," she confessed.
"But the thing with Kristin is, she's really good about just [being] like, 'Let's just do this. I'm down for whatever.'" "And for me it was like, there were some real feelings involved with Justin at the time, so I kind of had to get used to it," she continued.
"So, I kind of told him, 'We're going to film one more time.
He was with them in Las Vegas one weekend, and he told me that and [it] kind of broke my heart." "When I asked them about it, I didn't hear from either of them for weeks," she said, adding, "It made me feel even worse, like, 'Why aren't you calling me?
Something did happen, neither of you guys are calling me!
Things weren’t all smooth sailing: Bohan was arrested for public intoxication that May.
Bohan spent about eight hours in jail in Hermosa Beach, California, on the misdemeanor charge before being released on bail, according to TMZ.